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Honoring Myself and Breaking the Cycle

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Hey Sweets,

I have to be honest because above all, I want to be Tru. Earlier this week, as I reminded myself that I had to post this weekend and began to explore topics, I could feel the discouragement creeping in. It always starts with the thought of procrastination. This is the part of the journey where the excitement starts to fade. The thrill of starting something new gives way to the quiet, often uncomfortable reality of consistency. It’s tempting to stop here—to give myself permission to pause and promise I’ll pick it up later. In the past, this is where I would let the cycle continue: enthusiasm fades, discouragement creeps in, and I give up on what I set out to do. But not this time.

This time, I’m choosing to honor myself and break the cycle.

For as long as I can remember, discipline has been my struggle. I’d tell myself I’d do something, only to find every reason not to. And when I didn’t follow through, I’d criticize myself harshly, as if shame could fuel change. Spoiler alert: it doesn’t. I’m thinking now that maybe this has to do with my fear of being seen, but we can go deeper on that another time. What I’m learning now is that discipline, when rooted in love, is less about perfection and more about showing up—for myself, for my growth, and for the promises I’ve made.

I’ve started to think of this as gentle-parenting myself. When my kids feel discouraged, I don’t scold them or tell them they’re not enough. I offer patience, encouragement, and reminders of what they’re capable of. So why haven’t I done the same for myself? Why have I allowed discouragement to be the end of the story instead of part of the process?

Gentle-parenting myself looks like giving myself grace when I stumble but also holding myself accountable. It’s reminding myself that skipping one blog post might feel easier today, but it would mean breaking a promise to the person I’m becoming. It’s showing myself the same love and encouragement I freely give to others.

Breaking the cycle isn’t easy, but I’m taking intentional steps to do so. For me, it means committing to writing and publishing a blog post every week this year. As long as God keeps me, I will have at least 52 blogs posted by the end of 2025. This commitment is about more than just consistency; it’s about proving to myself that I can follow through, that I’m capable of growth and change. It’s choosing to believe in the person God is shaping me into.

For me, that step today is writing and posting this blog. It’s proof to myself that I can show up even when it feels hard. I can choose growth over comfort, love over fear, and progress over perfection.

Sweets, you’re part of the reason I’m learning to stay consistent. Your presence reminds me that my words matter and that this journey isn’t just about me—it’s about creating space for others to see themselves in these moments of truth. So, thank you for being here and for walking this path with me.

And if you’re in a place where keeping a promise to yourself feels impossible, I want to remind you that small steps count. Whether it’s five minutes of showing up or simply not giving up today, it all matters. Breaking the cycle starts with honoring who you are and believing in who you’re becoming.

With love,
Tru

The Power of Prayer and Believing in Signs

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Hey Sweets,

Have you ever prayed so deeply, so desperately, that you found yourself searching for any glimmer of reassurance that God heard you? I’ve been there, countless times. And each time, without fail, God has shown up—not always in the way I expected, but always in the way I needed.

Magnolia Tru itself is a testament to the power of prayer and belief in signs. Back in 2015, as I prepared to leave my hometown, I was overwhelmed with doubt and fear about what was next. I prayed for clarity, for confirmation that the step I was taking wasn’t just bold—it was right. Shortly after, I went to a painting event with my closest friends. The artist asked us to paint a magnolia tree.

That was my sign.

The magnolia tree, with its strength and beauty, had already been resonating with me. Seeing it materialize during a moment of uncertainty felt like a gentle whisper from God: Keep going. You’re on the right path.

Years later, as I questioned whether reviving Magnolia Tru was the right step, I prayed for clarity. “God, is this really what You want me to do?” I asked. Not long after, I found myself scrolling through TikTok, and the very next video was from a creator named Truly Dorcas.

For anyone else, that might seem like a coincidence, but for me, it was everything. Dorcas is a variation of my name, and I don’t come across it often. Seeing my name reflected so clearly felt like God was saying, This is for you. Trust Me.

Another time, I was in a deep moment of heartbreak, crying out to God to ease my pain and show me He was still with me. My mind tried to convince me that this was the end of my love story and that the future I dreamed of was gone. The next morning, as I sat in bed, the sun shining through my window caught my attention. The trees outside had created a perfect heart, with light streaming through it, casting the shape right into my room.

It was a moment of divine peace, a visual reminder of God’s love. He was telling me, This isn’t the end. I’m with you. Trust that I have something better planned.

Recently, I was praying and telling God that if He blessed me with a large financial breakthrough, it would help me so much. Right after finishing my prayer and starting my car, J. Cole’s “Love Yourz” began playing on the radio. The lyrics reminded me to focus on gratitude and contentment—that while blessings come, the love and stability I already have are priceless.

Sweets, Remember This

Prayer isn’t just about asking God for what you want; it’s about opening your heart to see the signs of His presence in your life. The signs He sends are often small but powerful reminders that you’re not walking this journey alone.

In the hardest moments—whether it’s heartbreak, uncertainty, or grief—remember that healing often comes from knowing you are seen, heard, and deeply loved. Signs may appear as a name on a screen, sunlight through a window, or a song on the radio. They’re not there to erase the pain, but to remind you that you’re being guided through it.

Healing takes time, patience, and trust. When you pray and stay open to God’s whispers, you’ll find the strength to keep moving forward. Embrace the journey, knowing that each step is bringing you closer to the peace and joy you deserve.

With love,
Tru