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The Power of Prayer and Believing in Signs

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Hey Sweets,

Have you ever prayed so deeply, so desperately, that you found yourself searching for any glimmer of reassurance that God heard you? I’ve been there, countless times. And each time, without fail, God has shown up—not always in the way I expected, but always in the way I needed.

Magnolia Tru itself is a testament to the power of prayer and belief in signs. Back in 2015, as I prepared to leave my hometown, I was overwhelmed with doubt and fear about what was next. I prayed for clarity, for confirmation that the step I was taking wasn’t just bold—it was right. Shortly after, I went to a painting event with my closest friends. The artist asked us to paint a magnolia tree.

That was my sign.

The magnolia tree, with its strength and beauty, had already been resonating with me. Seeing it materialize during a moment of uncertainty felt like a gentle whisper from God: Keep going. You’re on the right path.

Years later, as I questioned whether reviving Magnolia Tru was the right step, I prayed for clarity. “God, is this really what You want me to do?” I asked. Not long after, I found myself scrolling through TikTok, and the very next video was from a creator named Truly Dorcas.

For anyone else, that might seem like a coincidence, but for me, it was everything. Dorcas is a variation of my name, and I don’t come across it often. Seeing my name reflected so clearly felt like God was saying, This is for you. Trust Me.

Another time, I was in a deep moment of heartbreak, crying out to God to ease my pain and show me He was still with me. My mind tried to convince me that this was the end of my love story and that the future I dreamed of was gone. The next morning, as I sat in bed, the sun shining through my window caught my attention. The trees outside had created a perfect heart, with light streaming through it, casting the shape right into my room.

It was a moment of divine peace, a visual reminder of God’s love. He was telling me, This isn’t the end. I’m with you. Trust that I have something better planned.

Recently, I was praying and telling God that if He blessed me with a large financial breakthrough, it would help me so much. Right after finishing my prayer and starting my car, J. Cole’s “Love Yourz” began playing on the radio. The lyrics reminded me to focus on gratitude and contentment—that while blessings come, the love and stability I already have are priceless.

Sweets, Remember This

Prayer isn’t just about asking God for what you want; it’s about opening your heart to see the signs of His presence in your life. The signs He sends are often small but powerful reminders that you’re not walking this journey alone.

In the hardest moments—whether it’s heartbreak, uncertainty, or grief—remember that healing often comes from knowing you are seen, heard, and deeply loved. Signs may appear as a name on a screen, sunlight through a window, or a song on the radio. They’re not there to erase the pain, but to remind you that you’re being guided through it.

Healing takes time, patience, and trust. When you pray and stay open to God’s whispers, you’ll find the strength to keep moving forward. Embrace the journey, knowing that each step is bringing you closer to the peace and joy you deserve.

With love,
Tru

Farewell, 2024: Reflecting on a Year of Pain, Growth, and Gratitude

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Hey Sweets,

As I sit here reflecting on the past year, I feel a whirlwind of emotions—grief, growth, gratitude, and everything in between. 2024 was a year that stretched me in ways I didn’t think possible. It was a year of deep pain and profound lessons, but also of unexpected joy, strengthened faith, and a clearer vision of the life I want to live.

The year began with me in recovery from an emergency hysterectomy, a life-altering event that left me grappling with physical and emotional changes. Shortly after, I received news that could have been devastating: I had cancer of the appendix. But even before the diagnosis, God had already spoken healing over my life. By the time I heard the words, the battle had already been won, and I was cancer-free.

In the midst of recovery, my heart was tested. A relationship I thought would be my last came to an abrupt end, broken by betrayal. It was a painful reminder that not every connection is meant to come with you into your next season. Grieving that loss, alongside the changes in my body and the life I thought I was building, was overwhelming.

This year also brought the passing of my father, a loss that shook me to my core. It wasn’t just his death I mourned—it was the dreams I had attached to him, the future I envisioned with him in it, and the version of myself I thought he’d see.

That grief layered on top of the loss I was still carrying from 2022, when my aunt passed away. Grief isn’t linear. It doesn’t come in tidy waves or leave when you want it to. It has a way of showing up when you least expect it, demanding to be felt.

This year taught me to stop running from grief and to make room for it. I learned that grieving isn’t just about mourning what’s gone; it’s about letting go of what could have been and finding peace in what is.

But 2024 wasn’t all grief and loss. It was also a year of joy, community, and growth.

I grew closer to God in ways I hadn’t experienced before. Through the challenges, I leaned on Him more deeply, and He revealed His presence in every step of the journey. Whether it was declaring me cancer-free before a diagnosis, guiding me through heartbreak, or showing me the beauty of stillness, God reminded me that I am never alone.

This year, I also had the privilege of holding my first back-to-school giveback. Seeing the joy and gratitude in the faces of children and their families reminded me of the power of community and giving. It was a moment that filled my heart and reminded me why I do what I do.

Every birthday this year was a celebration of life, not just for me but for the people I love. Despite the challenges, I found joy in those moments, knowing how precious each day truly is.

And while some relationships came to an end, others grew stronger. I realized that not every loss is a setback; sometimes, it’s God clearing the way for deeper, more meaningful connections.

On Christmas Eve, as I looked around my home, I was overwhelmed by gratitude. For the first time, I saw it clearly: I am living in an answered prayer. Stability, peace, and a safe space for my family—these were once distant dreams, and now they are my reality.

Sweets, Remember This

As we step into 2025, let’s remember that rest is just as important as action. Slowing down doesn’t mean giving up—it means prioritizing peace, stability, and the blessings we’ve already received.

For me, 2025 will be a year of intentional rest and reflection. I’ve decided to bow out of the rat race and make Sundays sacred—a day to reset, recharge, and honor God’s provision.

Wherever you are in your journey, take a moment to pause, look around, and give thanks. You may find that you’re living in parts of your answered prayers right now.

Here’s to a new year filled with grace, growth, and the courage to rest.

Thanks for reading,
Tru

A New Chapter: Embracing Healing and Growth

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Hey Sweets,

It’s been over three years since my last post, and what a journey it has been. Back in August 2020, I shared pieces of my healing journey, navigating growth and self-discovery. Little did I know, that was just the beginning.

Life has a way of teaching us lessons we didn’t sign up for. Since my last post, I’ve experienced new depths of grief, both expected and unexpected. Grief isn’t just about loss in the traditional sense—it’s about letting go of what was, accepting what is, and learning to live in the space in between.

I’ve had to say goodbye to parts of my life, parts of myself, and people I thought would always be there. These moments have reshaped me, challenged me, and, ultimately, brought me closer to my truth. Healing is not a destination—it’s an ever-evolving process. And while I’m still on this journey, I’ve learned that the beauty of it lies in the growth that comes with each step forward.

One thing I’ve come to understand deeply is that healing isn’t just about addressing wounds—it’s about learning to embrace life’s uncertainties, celebrating the wins, and finding joy even in the smallest moments. It’s about building a life that feels true to who you are, even when the world feels heavy.

So, why am I back? Because Magnolia Tru still has so much more to give.

This blog has always been about truth, growth, and self-love, and now, with more life lived, I’m ready to take it to new heights. Moving forward, I want this space to be a reflection of where I’ve been, where I am, and where I’m going. I want it to feel like a home for you, too—a place where you can find inspiration, tools for healing, and a reminder that you’re not alone in this journey.

You’ll see posts about self-discovery, embracing grief, celebrating wins, and navigating life’s curveballs. You’ll also see more honesty, more depth, and more of the lessons I’ve learned along the way.

This isn’t just a blog—it’s a community, a reminder that growth doesn’t have to be perfect, and a space where we can bloom together.

Sweets, Remember This

Life is messy, beautiful, and full of twists and turns. Healing isn’t about having it all figured out; it’s about showing up for yourself every day, even when it’s hard. Wherever you are in your journey, know that you’re exactly where you’re supposed to be.

I’m so glad you’re here, and I can’t wait to share this new chapter with you.

Thanks for reading,
Tru